A month ago I posted about Cognitive-Emotive Dissonance (see the link) http://wp.me/p48Fm9-4k. I believe that I have adapted to this behavior and I have determined that I have change behaviors. I am continuously make good food choices without any problems.
When I go to the grocery store I know what to buy to keep up good eating habits to make sure that I support healthy eating. It is really easy to eat unhealthy food, but I am doing my best to stay focus. My 14 years old son, is also peeping over my shoulder all the time, because he wants to lose weight to pick up his speed for his football. So this also helps with staying motivated.
My biggest issue is when the hubby and I go out eat. I always have a hard time picking healthy choices. I have this thing where I want to eat something good because I am paying for it. This is where cognitive-emotive dissonance comes into play when eating out. This is behavior that I will have to really work on, it is in my opinion that it is really easy to control these behaviors at home. But when you are dining out it is really hard to stay on track. Those temptations fly out the window and that previous behavior surfaces again. One thing I have learned on this road is that everything is not easy. Because food is my temptation, I have come ready to fight and win.
I recently ran across several posts about weight loss. Some inspirations, some not, and one such site seemed to view obesity differently. It stated that if we wants to stay overweight why should non-fat people worry about it. Now while I agree with the author about how we are viewed, I did not agree with the posts about the weight loss and why doctors, nutritionists or whomever should stop encouraging overweight people to lose weight and aim for healthy weight. Nevertheless I have to disagree because if I had listen to my doctor about my eating habits and my weight. I would not be in the sh
ape I am in now. I guess one reason I also disagree with the posts is because I am one of those people now. I have talked to my kids and use myself as example to explained why they need to eat healthy and exercise. I believe that if I would have listen it would have help me to stay healthy and I would not have all these medical problems that I am having now. It is in my opinion that we have to open our eyes and realize that being overweight is not good and we are causing ourselves great harm by not focusing on healthy eating habits.
Peace, Love and Happiness!!